New camera!

I've always loved photography, and for almost as long, I've wanted to be a better photographer. But I've never had anything besides a point-and-shoot camera. I've actually been able to take some pretty great pictures with that, but I recently decided to upgrade. Last week I got a Canon DSLR and have been playing with it. I have a long way to go to learn all of the ins and outs, but in the meantime I've been having fun taking pictures of our dogs!

Opal:


Magnus:


Vasthi:

Reconnecting to the past, work edition

One of the amazing things about my job is that I've been with my company (minus a 3-month hiccup) for nearly 12 years now. In that time I've lived on both sides of the US, worked on 3-5 software products (depending on how you count my projects), held at least three or four different titles, had half a dozen amazing mentors, and gone from the most junior person around to an experienced design practitioner. I've worked with hundreds of people in many countries, learned entire new industries and fields, and been able to grow my skills and knowledge a ton. All while with one company. And this isn't really unique to me. A lot of people stay with my company for long periods of time.

So, given the way my company holds on to people pretty well, I think an extra fun thing about that is how people from past positions, past offices, and past work can come back into my up-and-coming projects. People I worked with 11 years ago, and haven't worked with in the last 10 years (although Facebook makes for an easier keeping-in-touch!) are now people I get to talk to and work with again. They have new and different roles, I have a new and different role, but we get to build on what we already know about each other. And that's just really neat.

It also gives me pause to thank my young self for not getting into too much trouble! :)

The progression of logic puzzles as entertainment

Logic puzzles have been a source of joy for me since I was a young child. Not riddles, where there's a piece of information you have to infer or a trick you need to grasp. Logic puzzles. Those classic grids and tables with x number of houses and x number of pets and x numbers of colors that all match up 1 to 1 to 1. The kind where you have all of the information you need, you just have to work through it to make it line up correctly. When I was in elementary school, our teachers would sometimes give them to us and I always asked for more of them.

That joy carried through school and into my career and life since. In fact, the love of logic puzzles has shaped how I approach problems I'm facing in day-to-day life. Be it figuring out a home improvement process, or working with a group to come to a resolution at work, I approach it the same way: with the belief that all of the information exists such that a solution can be worked out correctly for all involved. It's just a matter of figuring out the pieces, the overlaps, and the differences so that things line up correctly.

The spark for this particular reflection was the dinner party we hosted last night. Of the six of us, there was one vegetarian, one vegan, one omnivore with many food sensitivities, and some general food dislikes from one person or another.  As I worked on the menu the night before, I found myself approaching it much like I did those logic puzzles in elementary school. Where are the intersections? Where are the places where things are different? And what are the tastiest options on the list that provides several choices for each person? The difference in this scenario was the goal of having the maximum number of common solutions, rather than a one-to-one match for each person. Still, the approach worked, and once I had narrowed down the main ingredients, finding recipes to support those ingredients was just a simple search for things that sounded good. A few substitutions, and voila! A lovely dinner for a wonderful group of people!

Over dinner we spoke about the imaginary Venn diagram that resulted from the various diets. While it's not in the form of a logic puzzle solution, the actual Venn diagram was still fun to put together.

The hidden talent surfaces

Remember that hidden-to-me talent? After multiple conversations with my fiancée, my best friend, my mom, and my manager, I have a better understanding of what others were seeing that I was not. The talent has surfaced! And has also given me a realization.

With a competency "strength" that I am aware of, I also have an awareness that not everyone else has that same strength. This is important because it helps me realize that others' strengths, which are different than mine, may make them react differently, care about different things, or discuss issues using a different style.

Photo by runintherain

But because I wasn't aware of this particular strength that I have, I made the assumption that most people would approach certain situations with the same mindset as me. Now I see that it's not only a bad assumption, it's actually a dangerous one. I might miss entire reasons and motivations behind why people are doing something. Even more important, when I'm considering how to make an impact, discuss an issue, or help change a process, this bad assumption could undermine my efforts.

And I cannot describe how great the feeling is to have an ah-ha! moment about that. I love learning new things about myself and I love every little piece of information that makes working together with others more effective. Now to put that knowledge to use!

Are you being hamstrung by a hidden talent?

Further motivation for working out

If self motivation isn't enough for you to get your workout in, you can try paying for it. I mean, paying for when you miss it. Chris Shugart recently wrote about this phenomenon over on T-Nation. Gyms actually charge you for your no-shows! 

Chris also wrote one of my favorite explanations of how you get to the point where working out becomes a habit, even enjoyable: Do it until it doesn't suck


He says, "I remembered then some of my first serious workouts years before. I remembered dreading going to the gym, hating every second I was in there, and being glad each workout was over. I remembered having to force myself to go." 


Yeah, who doesn't know that part of building up the habit? In fact, I'd say I've kind of slipped back into that point. But I'll still go. And I'll be glad I did. 

Hidden talents

Have you ever had a talent that was hidden? No, not hidden to others, but one YOU didn't realize you had?

Today was my performance review. It was a really nice conversation with my manager, and an extension of the many things we have spoken about throughout the year. As it should be.

In terms of development areas in reviews, I probably spend a lot more time thinking about my weaknesses than anybody else does, so I don't find that I'm usually surprised in this part of the talk. I try to be realistic, but not too hard on myself. In the discussion of strengths, I'm generally quite confident in the areas I'm strong in and I believe I have a pretty good self-awareness about what those areas are (though I completely believe I have tons to learn in them).

But today during my review, I found myself in the rare situation of being a bit surprised by a strength recognized in me by others. Apparently I have a positive quality/competency that others see in me that I... I have never thought about. I'm almost not believing it, but I guess I've just never thought of it in the way that some of my peers have.

It's fascinating, really. I have a hidden talent. Only, it's hidden to me and not others. I spent years with hidden talents that I had that others weren't aware of, but this orientation of it is pretty unusual. And it makes me wonder how I can build on it now that I know about it.

It also makes me wonder how I can help other people see the talents they have. Not the ones they know about, but the ones that are hidden to them.

Meeting across the time zones (a very minor observation)

We have a wonderful group of people in our Shanghai office. I really enjoy working with them, and I'm lucky enough to have visited that office and spent time in person with my collegues there. But I have to be honest and say the time difference can be tough for scheduling meetings! Right now we're 12 hours apart, but the winter is spent with Shanghai 13 hours ahead of the east coast of the US. You can do morning meetings and you can do night meetings. Everything in between is not going to happen.

Yesterday I had a 7am meeting and a 9:30pm meeting in the same day. Usually I'm clever enough to avoid this, but in this case it really was my own fault. I forgot to check my morning when I scheduled the 9:30pm meeting! Since it's important to me to include some downtime during my day, yesterday was a rough one.

So my lesson is to verify both ends of the calendar before scheduling the meeting. This is also the case for a late night followed by an early morning!